Sunday, September 5, 2010

How to Please Your Woman, Chapter 1: Fingering.

Step 1
The first step is to massage her mound with palm. Tell her to gently ride your palms to start with.
Step 2
Apply some lubricant to your fingertip and trace the outer of her vagina to know how wet she is. Also lubricant will help her glide over your fingers smoothly. Gently touch her clitoris and her opening. Start very slow at first and then gradually move up and down or side movements.
Step 3
Soon she will become excited and then you can put a finger into her vagina but very gently. Insert your finger as far as it can go, may be upto secong or knucke. If you know her G spot, rub it with a circular motion that is smooth and regular. Now start with the finger intercourse moving your finger in and out of her vagina. At the same time use the thumb of the same hand to massage her clitoris. You should have a rhythm and coordination that is perfect.
Step 4
When she really gets to a high point, her breathing will change and vagina muscles will flex against your hand movements. To help build her orgasm, it is advisable to push your fingers against her thrusts. Continue stimulating her with the regular rhythm. Rhythm is important because it gives her the orgasm and stopping it might result in her losing the sensation and orgasm altogether. So even if she starts to moan or groan and scream don’t stop the rhythmic stimulation.
Useful Tips:
• Your nails should not be sharp or have rough edges, otherwise you might hurt her.
• With condoms purchase some lube that is water based. It will be handy to you if you expect an intercourse. In case you do not have the lube, your saliva or her juice will be useful. But never finger her dry.
• Before you insert your fingers into her vagina ask her, because many girls don’t like that idea. Or if you don’t want to ask, just insert a little of your fingers into her and her body language will tell you about her comfort level.
• Rest the palm of your hand on her mon. this will be less stressful to you and the movement you will get through this will be similar to when she herself does the fingering. Be sure not to move the palm, because the movement might irritate her because of the hair on her mons.

I'll be updating my clitoris periodically so be sure to look out for that, you wouldn't wanna miss out on this.